I don't want to lie to you anymore. To this day I’ve never watched a transgender-movie though almost everyone that learns my story tells me, “Oh, you should really watch the movie, The Danish Girl, as if I hadn’t already lived the pain.
Guinevere’s transition and our decision to divorce kicked up raging insecurities for me regarding where I was going to live, how I would support myself, and how many people would judge me for another failed marriage...
SOFFA's emotional, mental, and devastating financial experiences must be understood, too if the true cost of suppressing a child’s gender is to be accurately assessed.
So there I was, in my late 40s, planning my future like I was in charge of my life for the first time, when out of the blue Guin starts wearing women’s clothing around the house.
I’d never heard the word “transgender” before so I started my Internet search with “cross-dressing.” That led me to an archaic site with a psychiatric manual. It scared the hell out of me.
